@jessi, LMFAOI like ur commentVery BLUNT and to the POINT. You wouldn't happen to be burning a bra right about now would you? marriage should not be a punishment or a form of contract. And the same with me. we should always strife to solve a problem no matter how painful by looking at its essence and its core and not from its form. I do want to be a father but i always imagined it different, like being with a woman that i am in love with. Good luck. U r runnin away from marriage cos u didn love her b4 ?? marrying that girl would even be a bigger mistake and problem than the first one. The way you wrote that sounds like you think what a man wants is not as important as what a woman wants. You need to discuss with him so that you won't need to face the how do I deal with a break up while I am still pregnant his baby alone. You're a mom now. I had been seeing the guy (now DH) exclusively since August of 2011. Create an account or log in to participate. Twins & Multiples: Your Tentative Time Table, Planned c section too presumptuous??? As a matter of fact, there are many mental, emotional, and social side effects associated with being a young-faced woman. In the end its all about the kids. love should beget love and not hate or fear..something society always fails to learn. I honestly could not ever think of missing out on this child's growing up, especially the early stages. Body after birth: 18 post-pregnancy changes to look out for You can't force yourself to love him. Sex can lead to pregnancy and I'm assuming you knew the possibility of pregnancy when you made the choice. 8 Tough Truths to Consider When Your Partner Doesn't Want Kids - HuffPost You need to get in contact with services and leave. A woman isn't damaged after engaging in sex, having a baby, or ending a bad relationship. Sometimes it feels like you just can't win. And I still do. Friends with benefits are often just friends who you sleep with, with no emotional attachment. She's told me I'll get to see the kid and stuff but she doesn't want me in her life anymore because I make her too unhappy. Same boat. there will be hatred, resentment, and misery. If she says she doesn't want the relationship then that's fine but if a man says he doesn't then that's selfish. Thank you for purchase! She has someone who depends solely on her. On top of that, my age (early forties) scared me into accepting the situation thinking that i am too old to start all over again and wasting more time. My current girlfirend got pregnant while on the mini pill. We are two total opposite people. When he acts OK with the idea and his first instinct is to be happy, you can be sure it's one of the big signs a man wants to have a baby with you. I know many people that don't feel a connection to their babies for whatever reason until they are born, it happens and it will definitely change once you see his little face. After all, a 70-year-old guy can still have kids. The baby grew in her, she birthed it, she fed it, and she nurtured it every step of the way. And beware if your list of reasons is merely a hollow echo of your partner's. 3. 2005-2023Everyday Health, Inc., a Ziff Davis company. I don't want to burden her with any of this, especially now that she needs to be calm and feel secure. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. And if your parents think you guys are in love Then how does that work? Yes, you can still be happy in a relationship without being married. I didn't want to end up starting a family in my 50s. He pays for the stuff bc he can afford too and didn't want me working while pregnant which was fine when everything was good.
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